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Daily Archives: 02/13/2013

Patience and God make for a love story

Life As I Know IT
By Nicole Daughhetee

True story: Hurricane Andrew hit Miami in August 1992 — the summer before my junior year of high school. We lost power in the city for at least a week, prompting a city-wide curfew.

I can remember sitting out on our balcony, staring up at the night sky filled with stars, awed and amazed by the twinkling sight. Normally all the city lights of Miami choke out these celestial beings, and only a few ultra-bright, magical bodies managed to outshine the neon condominiums and illuminated streets.

Even though I had a boyfriend, who quite frankly was an immature jerk most of the time, I sat on our balcony and prayed that God would someday send me a soul-mate, the love of my life, the person He was perfectly preparing for me, the way He was preparing me for my love.
Over time I pushed the thought into the recesses of my mind — without ever truly giving up hope — and life carried on, as is its tendency.

I got married, had a baby girl, and then I got divorced. I got remarried, had another daughter and am going through South Carolina’s mandated yearlong separation period before I can file for divorce No. 2.
Judgmental people might look at my situation and say that I don’t take marriage seriously or that I simply quit when things get a little rocky. They would be wrong. The fact of the matter is, while I did everything I could to save my marriages, I truly believe they were doomed from the start for one very simply reason: neither of my marriages had a firm foundation in God.

Most Famous Love Stories in History and Literature


1. Romeo and Juliet
This is probably the most famous pair of lovers of all time. This couple has become a synonym for love itself. Romeo and Juliet is a tragedy by William Shakespeare. Their love story is very tragic: two teenagers from feuding families fall in love at first sight, marry, become true lovers and then risk it all for their love. Their untimely deaths ultimately unite their feuding households.

2. Cleopatra and Mark Antony

The true love story of Antony and Cleopatra is one of the most memorable, intriguing and moving of all times. The story of these two historical characters, later dramatized by William Shakespeare, is still staged all over the world. The relationship between these two powerful people put the country of Egypt in a powerful position. But their love affair outraged the Romans, who were wary of the growing powers of the Egyptians. Despite all the threats, Anthony and Cleopatra got married. It is said that while fighting a battle against Romans, Antony got false news of Cleopatra’s death. Shattered, he fell on his sword. When Cleopatra learned about Antony’s death, she was shocked and took her own life.

The Definition of Love

Aristophanes’ speech from Plato’s ‘Symposium’

With Valentine’s Day this week, what better time is there to analyze the true definition of love?

This lengthy dialogue is taken as an excerpt from Plato’s “Symposium,” particularly from the speech delivered by Aristophanes, the eminent Greek comic playwright of the time. Although Aristophanes warns that his speech is absurdist, its satirical content still strikes a chord in many respects to modern readers.

Aristophanes professed to open another vein of discourse; he had a mind to praise Love in another way, unlike that of either Pausanias or Eryximachus. Mankind, he said, judging by their neglect of him, have never, as I think, at all understood the power of Love. For if they had understood him they would surely have built noble temples and altars, and offered solemn sacrifices in his honour; but this is not done, and most certainly ought to be done: since of all the gods he is the best friend of men, the helper and the healer of the ills which are the great impediment to the happiness of the race. I will try to describe his power to you, and you shall teach the rest of the world what I am teaching you.
In the first place, let me treat of the nature of man and what has happened to it. The original human nature was not like the present, but different. The sexes were not two as they are now, but originally three in number; there was man, woman, and the union of the two, of which the name survives but nothing else. Once it was a distinct kind, with a bodily shape and a name of its own, constituted by the union of the male and the female: but now only the word ‘androgynous’ is preserved, and that as a term of reproach.

In the second place, the primeval man was round, his back and sides forming a circle; and he had four hands and the same number of feet, one head with two faces, looking opposite ways, set on a round neck and precisely alike; also four ears, two privy members, and the remainder to correspond. He could walk upright as men now do, backwards or forwards as he pleased, and he could also roll over and over at a great pace, turning on his four hands and four feet, eight in all, like tumblers going over and over with their legs in the air; this was when he wanted to run fast.

Los Poblanos celebrates grand opening in Six Mile

Los Poblanos held its ribbon cutting ceremony in Six Mile last Friday. Pictured are Elaine Porter (center) with her husband Dale and restaurant manager Cheryl Frazier, along with Sen. Larry Martin and Six Mile Mayor Roy Stoddard.

SIX MILE — Fans of Mexican food in the Six Mile area are in for a treat, as Los Poblanos, a new Mexican restaurant located at 136 S. Main Street, held its grand opening celebration on Feb. 8.

Los Poblanos owner Elaine Porter is looking forward to the opportunity to officially introduce her new restaurant to friends and neighbors in Six Mile and explains her desire to invest in the community.

“Los Poblanos is a locally owned restaurant, and we are focused on serving our community and creating jobs for local residents,” said Porter.
The restaurant currently has 12 employees — a group including high school students and other locals that Porter says are like “my family once I get them.”

Another of Porter’s businesses, Durham’s Convenience Store, located at the intersection of highways 183 and 133, also serves food, and while operating a more traditional restaurant like Los Poblanos is a little different, she understands that regardless of the setting, it’s the food that matters.

“Of course, great food is our top priority, and from our freshly made salsa to our signature Los Poblanos specials, our desire is that our food is of the best quality,” Porter said.

Mayor Roy Stoddard is thrilled by the new addition to the local business community and sees the opening of Los Poblanos, along with the recent addition of Atcheson Dental, as a sign of Six Mile’s tremendous potential.
“I applaud Elaine Porter for her financial commitment and confidence in our community and look forward to a long and lasting relationship with Los Poblanos,” said Stoddard.

The family-friendly restaurant is open Monday through Wednesday from 10:30 a.m. until 9 p.m. and Thursday through Saturday from 10:30 a.m. until 10 p.m.

Courier Obits for week of 2-13-13

ALICE B. ELLISON

EASLEY — Alice Rosie Bagwell Ellison, 93, formerly of the Ariail Community, wife of the late George A. Ellison, died Tuesday, Feb. 5, 2013 at Majesty Health & Rehab.

Born in Laurens County, a daughter of the late George Oscar and Artie Holder Bagwell, Mrs. Ellison retired from Alice Manufacturing Company and was a charter member of Easley Bible Methodist Church.

Surviving are two sons, Kenneth Ellison (Valarie) and Tony Ellison (Debbie), all of Six Mile; two daughters, Barbara Jean Dodson of Easley and Laura Howard (Donald) of Pickens a brother, Henry F. Bagwell of Easley; two sisters, Margie Roper and Lorine Hall, both of Easley; 10 grandchildren; Eddie and Tim Howard, Frank Dodson, Kent, Bryan, Kyle, Kaleb and Kirk Ellison, Megan Groves and Kara Ellison; and three great-grandchildren, Jacob and Madison Howard and Hart Ellison.

In addition to her husband and parents, Mrs. Ellison was predeceased by five brothers, Oscar, Walter, Earl, Eddie and Bill Bagwell; by four sisters, Emily and Ruthie Bagwell, Mary McDonald and Ethel Howard; and by a son-in-law, W. Frank Dodson.

Funeral services were 2 p.m. Thursday at Pickens View Wesleyan Church. Burial followed in Hillcrest Memorial Park.
Grandsons will serve as pallbearers.

Memorials may be made to Meals On Wheels, P.O. Box 184, Easley, SC 29641 or to Easley Bible Methodist Church, P.O. Box 363, Easley, SC 29641.

Condolences may be expressed online at www.robinsonfuneralhomes.com or in person at Robinson Funeral Home-Downtown which is assisting the family.

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