Bonnie: I’m quite sure my husband has Alzheimer’s disease. However, he refuses to go to a doctor to get diagnosed. If fact, he throws a loud tantrum if I bring up the subject. I know that there are several programs, vouchers and resources available if his Alzheimer’s disease is diagnosed. What do you suggest?

Answer: So often when a loved one is ill, and we are caregiving, we want to take over and tell him or her what must be done. Just like you and I would rebel — if the situation were reversed — your loved one will also rebel. In fact, as we get older and

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